Kinky women in Asheville

hii im a femme switch looking for new partners to play with and for more fun experiences. heavily into cnc + exhibitionism + petplay. catch my attention, keep it, and you won’t regret it.

Socially awkward penguin masquerading as a nuerospicy, demisexual, burnt out, creative and talented bratty sub with a praise kink. I can and do switch if the situation demands it but I would rather not. I am unabashadly, unapologetically myself. Pisces and empathic AF, with the musical taste of a schizophrenic. I sing. Like...all the time. I also dance all the time regardless of location. If you've ever seen some random girl grooving in the grocery store it was probably me. Ive had a long and illustrious career as an unproffesional profesaional model. I Have a degree in English and give fantastic word. Play is important, if you cant be childishly ridiculous it aint happening. Compliments unnerve me and I will probably respond with something stupid. I have the attention span of a caffeinated gnat so I might respond immediately or I might see something shiny and take awhile to get back to you. I understand the nature of this app/forum but prefer things to evolve as organically as possible and if I feel like something’s expected of me, or you hit me with a “nice shoes wanna fuck” type opener I’m gonna get turned off. If things get to the point of physicality I don’t care what’s in your pants as long as you efficiently take care of what’s in mine. Solo-Poly and not interested in love, romance, monogamy or long term so I’m not the person you’re going to spend the rest of your life with unless you only have 72 hours to live. I cannot host, nor do i have My own car at the moment. If you need clarification or have questions just ask. Just bring me snacks, telll me I’m pretty and a good girl, and take me dancing for the love of god!!l

👑 Sweet enough to adore. Divine enough to worship. get connected faster on insta: missdazeybaby I’m a woman who appreciates the beautiful art of devotion. I adore genuine admiration, thoughtful praise, acts of service, and being spoiled by those who find pleasure in making me smile. My world is built on worship, praise, affection, and intentional generosity. I enjoy respectful, consensual ***, where giving is an expression of appreciation, never pressure or obligation. Boundaries, honesty, discretion, and financial responsibility are incredibly attractive to me. I have a soft spot for my sweet littles, and I enjoy nurturing, playful dynamics rooted in trust, tenderness, and mutual understanding. I can be affectionate, teasing, a little bratty, and deliciously demanding, but always intentional about the energy I entertain. I appreciate consistency over empty promises, emotional intelligence over entitlement, and thoughtful gestures over grand performances. You don’t have to impress me with what you have. Impress me with how you carry yourself, how you respect boundaries, and how beautifully you understand devotion. Come with good intentions, a generous spirit, and impeccable manners. After all, a goddess doesn’t need to demand worship. The right people offer it willingly. 💋 insta: Missdazeybaby

Dom me? I’ll be a good girl for daddy 🥺. ill make your dreams/desires come true. Let’s have some fun. I bet you taste good😋❤️ Praise me.. please? MILF BBW SUB/SWITCH

hi, im elle. 35, solo poly, just having some fun. find me on socials under ellevespertine (IG, TT, OF, X, *** & ***)

27 year Old Baby Bat Babe- freshly DUMPED and DEVASTATED. Looking for Fun and Easy REBOUND. NO STRINGS;unless you can change my mind? looking to explore and expand Fetishes and acquired tastes😘 Slowly crossing off things on bucket list while making new friends while doing it!

Not here for couples, hook ups or ONS. Not into casual or pickup play. This is with intention. Communication , trust and transparency are extremely important. Looking for a connection with someone. Not looking for a pen pal. Would rather meet in person to see if there is chemistry. I would like to meet someone who has experience in the lifestyle but this is not required. Let something cultivate and have a mix of D/s.

32 year old, married, new to the scene, looking to explore and get to know people let’s chat and become friends ❤️

SSBBW in NC seeking hung BBC /BWC for friends with benefits. Healthy appetite for nonstop pleasure seeks same. Come for fun, stay for more. Large booty ready for some hard spankings. Come see what this SSBBW can handle

Hi! I’m Zoe and I’ve been involved in the Asheville BDSM community for 5 years now. I am all submissive, all bottom, but I consider myself an all-rounder sub. I occupy a lot of different types of submissive rolls! I can’t commit to one flavor of submission, but my first love is my roll as a doll for dollification. My range is extensive and my kink list is obnoxiously long. I would say the very biggest part of the play I’m most into, however, is the aspect of power exchange in whatever form it may take. My vanilla interests are similarly varied and all over the place. I’m a woman in STEM and also heavily practice spirituality. Been reading tarot for 13 years and studying medicine since I could read. I love arts and crafts, I love music, I love studying for fun and learning new things. I’m also into video games and my little shows. Former anime nerd and cosplayer with the battle scars (Naruto tattoo) to prove it. I love all things pink and sparkly and looove some bubblegum pop, but my first love will always be emo/scene and I’ve been back into expressing that. Love goth and punk as well! Truly plus size diva. I am fat. Just so we’re clear on that. I have a very curvy body shape, but I am in fact a big girl.

Friends With Benefits I'm new to this, but I'm ready to explore and see what it's all about. I'm looking for people who are serious about meeting, but NOT pushy that won't get you anywhere with me. NOT into anal don't even ask! IF YOU ARE NOT IN MY LOCAL AREA, DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME!!! I WILL NOT REPLY! NO PIC = NO RESPONSE DO NOT ASK ME FOR MORE PICS I'm into... Hair pulling, spanking, kissing, touching, nibbling/ biting on my neck, and a little bit of choking. CREAMPIES ARE A MUST!!!! I'm open to just about anything except extreme ***, bathroom games, and anal, anything else... just simply ask.

I’m searching for a genuine partner in crime — a relationship and friendship. I’m not interested in hook ups and casual fun. Favorite color is Orange 🍊, love horror & action movies. Favorite food: chicken wings, pasta and crab cakes! Love a hidden waterfalls. Aries ♈️ Lives in Asheville,NC

hello, my name is Raven, and I live in Asheville, NC! I love to partake in CNC, mask play, shibari, and more! I'm submissive by nature, and love to get lost in pleasure and ***. I smoke (420!), and drink, so let's meet somewhere first and see if the chemistry is there!

after a failed marriage, I no longer need to be vanilla and I can let my kink flag fly! 49 year old bi female with a fat ass, a deep throat and an insatiable desire to edge myself all day.

Hi yall! My partner and I are in an open relationship and are open to including people in the bedroom as well as dating individually, or together! Happy to share more about us too, but as far as I go: In my free time I: -like to lay by the pool and read/sunbathe -hike to waterfalls or lookouts -cook meals and gather my friends for dinner parties, craft nights, movie nights, dnd, game night you name it -explore new restaurants and try new foods Kink wise: I am pretty much a 50/50 switch. I love whatever dynamic feels right and have come to learn I am satisfied and happy in both roles or switching back and forth. Regardless I prefer soft domination. I enjoy most kinks and over all just enjoy doing things that excite me and my partner and push our boundaries. My limits are ***, *** and vomit! Happy hunting 😛

Recently out of what was supposed to be a dom/sub relationship but was more of a running joke. Not looking for anything serious at the moment, friends, no strings fwb is about all I can offer at the moment.

NOT INTERESTED IN CYBER OR LONG DISTANCE. I live a life and have a career where I am very independent and in charge. Looking for that dynamic where i feel safe and trust enough to give up control and not have to be in charge. I want someone who I want to give my submission to. Dark romance book addict 💀📚. Big feelings, higher standards, and only looking for someone who can keep up. I’m soft-hearted, playful, and love being treated well by my partner and who knows how to lead. I bring warmth, laughter, and peace, you bring confidence and respectful dominance. No Snapchat for me 😇 it gives a little too “high school energy,” and see it as more of a red flag for people who aren’t really serious about connection.

I am looking for a strong compassionate person, who is willing to put up with some bratty behavior and put me in my place. This person has to be empathetic, patient, kind, witty, and smart. Ideally we should be able to talk about many things, not just concerning sex. I enjoy being outside, and more athletic activities, so you have to be somewhat active/enjoy being outside. My goal is not just to find a long term partner but also build a community, and find friends to learn from. Most times I’m open to advice or knowledge on different topics, so feel free to share. I am newer to this lifestyle, so I am still learning, but that doesn’t mean I will accept disrespect/weird behavior.

Savannah Marie-Newly 27 Female Jackob- 33 Male Poly/Partnered Couple looking to meet friends & anonymous hookups -Heya! Sav here, trying to encourage my lovely partner to open up and explore his sexuality! looking for FemBoy who can be fun yet respectful of boundaries! not looking for Anything serious; just a Toy to bring home to Daddy 😘🤭

I'm Aubs. :) Currently interested in female friends and play partners. I do have a male play partner, so not currently seeking single men/couples. Come get in my giant bathtub and make out. :)

I’m super playful, intelligent and very energetic…. I’ve been told I’m a bit of a brat but not sure that I agree 😆 super left politically and need values, intelligence and humor to align before anything else. I’m giving and kind, patient and warm-natured.

easy going girl looking for some fun.

Hey! Im Em :) Im polygamous, and currently have 1 other partner, if that's not your thing, I understand! Open to fwb/hookups etc but also looking for a partner(s) for just me currently, but open to also being around/friends/involved with my current partner. Also looking for friends as we are new to town :) also highly kink-friendly and 420 friendly A bit of a goofball, will try and make you laugh pretty hard. Love all things silly, have vine references on repeat, and we probably will end up with thousands of inside jokes. I'm an art lover, I love drawing, doing arts + crafts etc. I do tattoos for a living! I love all ***s but if we get along I'll introduce you to my 5 cats and 2 dogs :) Lets go thrifting! I love going to the nearest thrift/antique store and digging through old things 🤣 My aesthetic is definitely cottagecore mixed with old timey antiques! I love all things nature! Going to the waterfalls in Brevard is one of my favorite places to be. Also into hiking, sight-seeing, bird watching etc! I have a recent addiction to karaoke (although I do get stage fright) but I do enjoy going at least. I eat all types of food but have a current addiction to asian and indian cuisine! Tell me your favorite places!! Always down to try something new. Even though I enjoy going out, I am somewhat of a homebody. I love binge watching a new tv series and cuddling on the couch, especially after a long day of socializing lol

looking for someone to take me out for a short time and take care of me in a certain way. I am very sensual and love to make someone feel good. Maybe we can make a trade for services.

hii im a femme switch looking for new partners to play with and for more fun experiences. heavily into cnc + exhibitionism + petplay. catch my attention, keep it, and you won’t regret it.

32 year old, married, new to the scene, looking to explore and get to know people let’s chat and become friends ❤️

Not here for couples, hook ups or ONS. Not into casual or pickup play. This is with intention. Communication , trust and transparency are extremely important. Looking for a connection with someone. Not looking for a pen pal. Would rather meet in person to see if there is chemistry. I would like to meet someone who has experience in the lifestyle but this is not required. Let something cultivate and have a mix of D/s.

👑 Sweet enough to adore. Divine enough to worship. get connected faster on insta: missdazeybaby I’m a woman who appreciates the beautiful art of devotion. I adore genuine admiration, thoughtful praise, acts of service, and being spoiled by those who find pleasure in making me smile. My world is built on worship, praise, affection, and intentional generosity. I enjoy respectful, consensual ***, where giving is an expression of appreciation, never pressure or obligation. Boundaries, honesty, discretion, and financial responsibility are incredibly attractive to me. I have a soft spot for my sweet littles, and I enjoy nurturing, playful dynamics rooted in trust, tenderness, and mutual understanding. I can be affectionate, teasing, a little bratty, and deliciously demanding, but always intentional about the energy I entertain. I appreciate consistency over empty promises, emotional intelligence over entitlement, and thoughtful gestures over grand performances. You don’t have to impress me with what you have. Impress me with how you carry yourself, how you respect boundaries, and how beautifully you understand devotion. Come with good intentions, a generous spirit, and impeccable manners. After all, a goddess doesn’t need to demand worship. The right people offer it willingly. 💋 insta: Missdazeybaby

27 year Old Baby Bat Babe- freshly DUMPED and DEVASTATED. Looking for Fun and Easy REBOUND. NO STRINGS;unless you can change my mind? looking to explore and expand Fetishes and acquired tastes😘 Slowly crossing off things on bucket list while making new friends while doing it!

after a failed marriage, I no longer need to be vanilla and I can let my kink flag fly! 49 year old bi female with a fat ass, a deep throat and an insatiable desire to edge myself all day.

Poly & Partnered. AuDHD and bendy. Looking for friendly and safe connections that will help me embrace my kinky side. 😈😘 Consent and being DDF are both important to me.

easy going girl looking for some fun.

I'm a submissive that likes to hear what a good girl I am. I like bdsm along with nurturing acts also. looking for a Dom that will let me surrender to him, emotionally, physically and spiritually. but He will have to be able to complete and nurture me and the dom relationship. protect me and make me feel safe so I can surrender .

Hi! I’m Zoe and I’ve been involved in the Asheville BDSM community for 5 years now. I am all submissive, all bottom, but I consider myself an all-rounder sub. I occupy a lot of different types of submissive rolls! I can’t commit to one flavor of submission, but my first love is my roll as a doll for dollification. My range is extensive and my kink list is obnoxiously long. I would say the very biggest part of the play I’m most into, however, is the aspect of power exchange in whatever form it may take. My vanilla interests are similarly varied and all over the place. I’m a woman in STEM and also heavily practice spirituality. Been reading tarot for 13 years and studying medicine since I could read. I love arts and crafts, I love music, I love studying for fun and learning new things. I’m also into video games and my little shows. Former anime nerd and cosplayer with the battle scars (Naruto tattoo) to prove it. I love all things pink and sparkly and looove some bubblegum pop, but my first love will always be emo/scene and I’ve been back into expressing that. Love goth and punk as well! Truly plus size diva. I am fat. Just so we’re clear on that. I have a very curvy body shape, but I am in fact a big girl.

Me: lg who took far too long in life to find her Daddy Dom. Still exploring my little side when I’m not doing all that pesky adulting. I like hikes, trees, bubbles, looking at flowers with a tiny microscope, waterfalls and 🍄daze :) I’ve been on fetlife for awhile but just now checking out this app so my profile is still a wee bebe, for my real pics I’ll happily share my get profile - but… My amazing Daddy has a big ol birthday coming up and I’m exploring ways to make it extra special with another little friend if vibes are right. 😈 maybe there is another little friend around who also loves bubbles and old Disney movies and oh dozens of orgasms. I have a very, very talented Daddy 🥰

I’m searching for a genuine partner in crime — a relationship and friendship. I’m not interested in hook ups and casual fun. Favorite color is Orange 🍊, love horror & action movies. Favorite food: chicken wings, pasta and crab cakes! Love a hidden waterfalls. Aries ♈️ Lives in Asheville,NC

I’m 24 I like hobbies that take patience m, such as knitting, baking, ***ting, and reading I honestly got on here to see what the fuss was about. Help me understand myself better and why I want for myself. ♥️

Married, polyamorous and partnered. Been into kink since I was a *** but been primarily in vanilla relationships (and frustrated), looking to explore my sub and brat sides more. Bi but primarily seeking masc partners at the moment, though that may change. Strongly sapiosexual, so talk nerdy to me. Mostly interested in chatting/online, willing to meet for the right connections.

looking for someone to take me out for a short time and take care of me in a certain way. I am very sensual and love to make someone feel good. Maybe we can make a trade for services.

Savannah Marie-Newly 27 Female Jackob- 33 Male Poly/Partnered Couple looking to meet friends & anonymous hookups -Heya! Sav here, trying to encourage my lovely partner to open up and explore his sexuality! looking for FemBoy who can be fun yet respectful of boundaries! not looking for Anything serious; just a Toy to bring home to Daddy 😘🤭

at least ask me what my favorite color is first. If we’re being honest, I’m new to this “world” and the way that things work. This sort of lifestyle has always fascinated me.

hello, my name is Raven, and I live in Asheville, NC! I love to partake in CNC, mask play, shibari, and more! I'm submissive by nature, and love to get lost in pleasure and ***. I smoke (420!), and drink, so let's meet somewhere first and see if the chemistry is there!

heyyy :) i’ve been apart of the kink community for a few years now! i’d consider myself a battle brat, im good at causing a scene before a scene😂 runner and chaser? yes!! that last nerve being poked? YES!!! but im also so sweet with so much affection to give😩💗 im looking for a long term D/s, specifically a daddy dom/ sadist with daddy tendencies of the sorts lol. i do enjoy older men so if you’re 45 or older, what are you waiting for?🥲 i do enjoy a good rigger, someone who knows the ropes and educated on proper performance. i’m a bit of a masochist- flogs, paddles, anything that hurts is essential during play- being a canvas is a delight🥰 i’m also very selective of who i share my body with, consider me a “selective slut” haha- take that as you will but it’s true😊😂 im hell bent on depth involved no matter the connection, i can’t connect without it. presence and consistency matter most, people reveal themselves on their own within time and ill know where to stand. i don’t chase, i don’t beg, and i wont fall for the crumbs. i don’t tolerate disrespect, respect my boundaries and that we’re equal no matter the role. if you want access, it’ll have to be earned. im open to any kind of connection, new experiences are a must no matter where it goes💗 last STD/STI panel done 3/20/26, i’m clean :) paperwork can be provided if curious. —————— now onto the good stuff.. i moved to WNC when i was 5 and i grew up here for the last 20 years but i’ve bounced around the WNC map a few times lol. i just moved to asheville in march of 2025. i’m a homebody in the winter and enjoy my solitude, but when it starts warming up it’s hard to get me back in the house😂 i blossom with the flowers when it’s time🥲 i’m a true crime junkie, i love astrology and study the stars✨, best friends with a man named billiard🎱, and i love what i do for work, body modification 💉 swimming and tubing is essential in the summer, hiking is okay but i require a waterfall at the end🤣 i enjoy traveling when i have the time. i love the beach very much, even as a mountain girl haha! i’m categorized as “yallternative”, take that as you wish lmfao!!

Hey! Im Em :) Im polygamous, and currently have 1 other partner, if that's not your thing, I understand! Open to fwb/hookups etc but also looking for a partner(s) for just me currently, but open to also being around/friends/involved with my current partner. Also looking for friends as we are new to town :) also highly kink-friendly and 420 friendly A bit of a goofball, will try and make you laugh pretty hard. Love all things silly, have vine references on repeat, and we probably will end up with thousands of inside jokes. I'm an art lover, I love drawing, doing arts + crafts etc. I do tattoos for a living! I love all ***s but if we get along I'll introduce you to my 5 cats and 2 dogs :) Lets go thrifting! I love going to the nearest thrift/antique store and digging through old things 🤣 My aesthetic is definitely cottagecore mixed with old timey antiques! I love all things nature! Going to the waterfalls in Brevard is one of my favorite places to be. Also into hiking, sight-seeing, bird watching etc! I have a recent addiction to karaoke (although I do get stage fright) but I do enjoy going at least. I eat all types of food but have a current addiction to asian and indian cuisine! Tell me your favorite places!! Always down to try something new. Even though I enjoy going out, I am somewhat of a homebody. I love binge watching a new tv series and cuddling on the couch, especially after a long day of socializing lol

Dom me? I’ll be a good girl for daddy 🥺. ill make your dreams/desires come true. Let’s have some fun. I bet you taste good😋❤️ Praise me.. please? MILF BBW SUB/SWITCH

Friends With Benefits I'm new to this, but I'm ready to explore and see what it's all about. I'm looking for people who are serious about meeting, but NOT pushy that won't get you anywhere with me. NOT into anal don't even ask! IF YOU ARE NOT IN MY LOCAL AREA, DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME!!! I WILL NOT REPLY! NO PIC = NO RESPONSE DO NOT ASK ME FOR MORE PICS I'm into... Hair pulling, spanking, kissing, touching, nibbling/ biting on my neck, and a little bit of choking. CREAMPIES ARE A MUST!!!! I'm open to just about anything except extreme ***, bathroom games, and anal, anything else... just simply ask.

Socially awkward penguin masquerading as a nuerospicy, demisexual, burnt out, creative and talented bratty sub with a praise kink. I can and do switch if the situation demands it but I would rather not. I am unabashadly, unapologetically myself. Pisces and empathic AF, with the musical taste of a schizophrenic. I sing. Like...all the time. I also dance all the time regardless of location. If you've ever seen some random girl grooving in the grocery store it was probably me. Ive had a long and illustrious career as an unproffesional profesaional model. I Have a degree in English and give fantastic word. Play is important, if you cant be childishly ridiculous it aint happening. Compliments unnerve me and I will probably respond with something stupid. I have the attention span of a caffeinated gnat so I might respond immediately or I might see something shiny and take awhile to get back to you. I understand the nature of this app/forum but prefer things to evolve as organically as possible and if I feel like something’s expected of me, or you hit me with a “nice shoes wanna fuck” type opener I’m gonna get turned off. If things get to the point of physicality I don’t care what’s in your pants as long as you efficiently take care of what’s in mine. Solo-Poly and not interested in love, romance, monogamy or long term so I’m not the person you’re going to spend the rest of your life with unless you only have 72 hours to live. I cannot host, nor do i have My own car at the moment. If you need clarification or have questions just ask. Just bring me snacks, telll me I’m pretty and a good girl, and take me dancing for the love of god!!l

I am looking for a strong compassionate person, who is willing to put up with some bratty behavior and put me in my place. This person has to be empathetic, patient, kind, witty, and smart. Ideally we should be able to talk about many things, not just concerning sex. I enjoy being outside, and more athletic activities, so you have to be somewhat active/enjoy being outside. My goal is not just to find a long term partner but also build a community, and find friends to learn from. Most times I’m open to advice or knowledge on different topics, so feel free to share. I am newer to this lifestyle, so I am still learning, but that doesn’t mean I will accept disrespect/weird behavior.