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hii im a femme switch looking for new partners to play with and for more fun experiences. heavily into cnc + exhibitionism + petplay. catch my attention, keep it, and you won’t regret it.
Female (21) Asheville, North Carolina
after a failed marriage, I no longer need to be vanilla and I can let my kink flag fly! 49 year old bi female with a fat ass, a deep throat and an insatiable desire to edge myself all day.
Female (49) Asheville, North Carolina
I’m searching for a genuine partner in crime — a relationship and friendship. I’m not interested in hook ups and casual fun. Favorite color is Orange 🍊, love horror & action movies. Favorite food: chicken wings, pasta and crab cakes! Love a hidden waterfalls. Aries ♈️ Lives in Asheville,NC
Female (30) Asheville, North Carolina
Hey! Im Em :) Im polygamous, and currently have 1 other partner, if that's not your thing, I understand! Open to fwb/hookups etc but also looking for a partner(s) for just me currently, but open to also being around/friends/involved with my current partner. Also looking for friends as we are new to town :) also highly kink-friendly and 420 friendly A bit of a goofball, will try and make you laugh pretty hard. Love all things silly, have vine references on repeat, and we probably will end up with thousands of inside jokes. I'm an art lover, I love drawing, doing arts + crafts etc. I do tattoos for a living! I love all ***s but if we get along I'll introduce you to my 5 cats and 2 dogs :) Lets go thrifting! I love going to the nearest thrift/antique store and digging through old things 🤣 My aesthetic is definitely cottagecore mixed with old timey antiques! I love all things nature! Going to the waterfalls in Brevard is one of my favorite places to be. Also into hiking, sight-seeing, bird watching etc! I have a recent addiction to karaoke (although I do get stage fright) but I do enjoy going at least. I eat all types of food but have a current addiction to asian and indian cuisine! Tell me your favorite places!! Always down to try something new. Even though I enjoy going out, I am somewhat of a homebody. I love binge watching a new tv series and cuddling on the couch, especially after a long day of socializing lol
Female (22) Asheville, North Carolina
I'm bi. I'm looking to explore and hoping to find something more. I'm really new to all this. but I'm trying to be more honest with myself. I'm mostly submissive and can be a little bratty. I wanna be taken care of.
Female (31) Asheville, North Carolina
Poly & Partnered. AuDHD and bendy. Looking for friendly and safe connections that will help me embrace my kinky side. 😈😘 Consent and being DDF are both important to me.
Female (32) Asheville, North Carolina
looking for someone to take me out for a short time and take care of me in a certain way. I am very sensual and love to make someone feel good. Maybe we can make a trade for services.
Female (46) Asheville, North Carolina
Hi yall! My partner and I are in an open relationship and are open to including people in the bedroom as well as dating individually, or together! Happy to share more about us too, but as far as I go: In my free time I: -like to lay by the pool and read/sunbathe -hike to waterfalls or lookouts -cook meals and gather my friends for dinner parties, craft nights, movie nights, dnd, game night you name it -explore new restaurants and try new foods Kink wise: I am pretty much a 50/50 switch. I love whatever dynamic feels right and have come to learn I am satisfied and happy in both roles or switching back and forth. Regardless I prefer soft domination. I enjoy most kinks and over all just enjoy doing things that excite me and my partner and push our boundaries. My limits are ***, *** and vomit! Happy hunting 😛
Female (28) Asheville, North Carolina
SSBBW in NC seeking hung BBC /BWC for friends with benefits. Healthy appetite for nonstop pleasure seeks same. Come for fun, stay for more. Large booty ready for some hard spankings. Come see what this SSBBW can handle
Female (53) Asheville, North Carolina
Allow me to introduce myself: My name is Kinky Bliss and I have a very needy pussy. I am aching for an Alpha Pleasure Dom, that will spit in my mouth and fuck me with a hand around my throat. I'm not necessarily a traditional "sub", but love being overpowered sexually. I crave sexual dominance from a man who knows what he wants. I love primal urgency and melt if you grunt and make noises during sex. I will do anything for you if you call me Good Girl or Babygirl. Let's play 😈
Female (44) Asheville, North Carolina
NOT INTERESTED IN CYBER OR LONG DISTANCE. I live a life and have a career where I am very independent and in charge. Looking for that dynamic where i feel safe and trust enough to give up control and not have to be in charge. I want someone who I want to give my submission to. Dark romance book addict 💀📚. Big feelings, higher standards, and only looking for someone who can keep up. I’m soft-hearted, playful, and love being treated well by my partner and who knows how to lead. I bring warmth, laughter, and peace, you bring confidence and respectful dominance. No Snapchat for me 😇 it gives a little too “high school energy,” and see it as more of a red flag for people who aren’t really serious about connection.
Female (33) Asheville, North Carolina
hi, im elle. 35, solo poly, just having some fun. find me on socials under ellevespertine (IG, TT, OF, X, *** & ***)
Female (35) Asheville, North Carolina
A sub somewhat new to kink but well educated. Interested in rope play, Impact play, Sensory play, Orgasm control, being overstimulated, Shibari, and throat fucking, A true 24/7 D/s dynamic The use of toys, restraints and other things similar. Harder Kinks include CNC Sleep play Total Power Exchange Free Use
Female (22) Asheville, North Carolina
I am looking for a strong compassionate person, who is willing to put up with some bratty behavior and put me in my place. This person has to be empathetic, patient, kind, witty, and smart. Ideally we should be able to talk about many things, not just concerning sex. I enjoy being outside, and more athletic activities, so you have to be somewhat active/enjoy being outside. My goal is not just to find a long term partner but also build a community, and find friends to learn from. Most times I’m open to advice or knowledge on different topics, so feel free to share. I am newer to this lifestyle, so I am still learning, but that doesn’t mean I will accept disrespect/weird behavior.
Female (18) Asheville, North Carolina
I'm looking for a face to ride a few times a week or whenever I want 💛 Wont be showing my face on here, but happy to share if we connect/I'm interested. I already have a lover that blows my mind, but he's an hour away and I only see him once a week. Looking for someone who gets off on getting me off in the in between. I dont have a lot of time so needs to be easily accessible/matching availability, nearby and just easeful in general. I'm kind and generous, big time praise kink. Has to be the right connection, has to be ultra respectful, friendship connection with appreciation for mutual satisfaction/kink exploration would be the ideal... been looking for a daddy dynamic for a long time. Love a beard in between my legs. Dont hassle me if I dont respond. Super picky.
Female (46) Asheville, North Carolina
I'm not good at making the first move, if you want to chat feel free to message me. I've always had a thing for being tied down and want to learn about shibari, I think that's what its called. I'm also interested in aggressive cunnilingus, ***d orgasms, sensation play, sensory deprivation, and toys. I don't have experience with these but I'm definitely interested.
Female (43) Asheville, North Carolina
Hi! I’m Zoe and I’ve been involved in the Asheville BDSM community for 5 years now. I am all submissive, all bottom, but I consider myself an all-rounder sub. I occupy a lot of different types of submissive rolls! I can’t commit to one flavor of submission, but my first love is my roll as a doll for dollification. My range is extensive and my kink list is obnoxiously long. I would say the very biggest part of the play I’m most into, however, is the aspect of power exchange in whatever form it may take. My vanilla interests are similarly varied and all over the place. I’m a woman in STEM and also heavily practice spirituality. Been reading tarot for 13 years and studying medicine since I could read. I love arts and crafts, I love music, I love studying for fun and learning new things. I’m also into video games and my little shows. Former anime nerd and cosplayer with the battle scars (Naruto tattoo) to prove it. I love all things pink and sparkly and looove some bubblegum pop, but my first love will always be emo/scene and I’ve been back into expressing that. Love goth and punk as well! Truly plus size diva. I am fat. Just so we’re clear on that. I have a very curvy body shape, but I am in fact a big girl.
Female (25) Asheville, North Carolina
Me: lg who took far too long in life to find her Daddy Dom. Still exploring my little side when I’m not doing all that pesky adulting. I like hikes, trees, bubbles, looking at flowers with a tiny microscope, waterfalls and 🍄daze :) I’ve been on fetlife for awhile but just now checking out this app so my profile is still a wee bebe, for my real pics I’ll happily share my get profile - but… My amazing Daddy has a big ol birthday coming up and I’m exploring ways to make it extra special with another little friend if vibes are right. 😈 maybe there is another little friend around who also loves bubbles and old Disney movies and oh dozens of orgasms. I have a very, very talented Daddy 🥰
Female (47) Asheville, North Carolina
easy going girl looking for some fun.
Female (36) Asheville, North Carolina
I'm Aubs. :) Currently interested in female friends and play partners. I do have a male play partner, so not currently seeking single men/couples. Come get in my giant bathtub and make out. :)
Female (31) Asheville, North Carolina
Savannah Marie-Newly 27 Female Jackob- 33 Male Poly/Partnered Couple looking to meet friends & anonymous hookups -Heya! Sav here, trying to encourage my lovely partner to open up and explore his sexuality! looking for FemBoy who can be fun yet respectful of boundaries! not looking for Anything serious; just a Toy to bring home to Daddy 😘🤭
Female (27) Asheville, North Carolina
Hello beautiful! I'm a bit inexperienced, but can a pretty girl help me explore my sexuality? I'm looking for a casual gf or fwb. NSA or hookups are okay too but I'm a romantic at heart. I am in a hetero relationship; my bf (25M) knows I'm looking for a gf for me and not 🦄 hunting...but I've always had a 3some fantasy 🤭 I'd love to mark it off my bucket list. No pressure tho ..I just wanna kiss some girls 🥺
Female (24) Asheville, North Carolina
heyyy :) i’ve been apart of the kink community for a few years now! i’d consider myself a battle brat, im good at causing a scene before a scene😂 runner and chaser? yes!! that last nerve being poked? YES!!! but im also so sweet with so much affection to give😩💗 im looking for a long term D/s, specifically a daddy dom/ sadist with daddy tendencies of the sorts lol. i do enjoy older men so if you’re 45 or older, what are you waiting for?🥲 i do enjoy a good rigger, someone who knows the ropes and educated on proper performance. i’m a bit of a masochist- flogs, paddles, anything that hurts is essential during play- being a canvas is a delight🥰 i’m also very selective of who i share my body with, consider me a “selective slut” haha- take that as you will but it’s true😊😂 im hell bent on depth involved no matter the connection, i can’t connect without it. presence and consistency matter most, people reveal themselves on their own within time and ill know where to stand. i don’t chase, i don’t beg, and i wont fall for the crumbs. i don’t tolerate disrespect, respect my boundaries and that we’re equal no matter the role. if you want access, it’ll have to be earned. im open to any kind of connection, new experiences are a must no matter where it goes💗 last STD/STI panel done 3/20/26, i’m clean :) paperwork can be provided if curious. —————— now onto the good stuff.. i moved to WNC when i was 5 and i grew up here for the last 20 years but i’ve bounced around the WNC map a few times lol. i just moved to asheville in march of 2025. i’m a homebody in the winter and enjoy my solitude, but when it starts warming up it’s hard to get me back in the house😂 i blossom with the flowers when it’s time🥲 i’m a true crime junkie, i love astrology and study the stars✨, best friends with a man named billiard🎱, and i love what i do for work, body modification 💉 swimming and tubing is essential in the summer, hiking is okay but i require a waterfall at the end🤣 i enjoy traveling when i have the time. i love the beach very much, even as a mountain girl haha! i’m categorized as “yallternative”, take that as you wish lmfao!!
Female (24) Asheville, North Carolina
I’m 24 I like hobbies that take patience m, such as knitting, baking, ***ting, and reading I honestly got on here to see what the fuss was about. Help me understand myself better and why I want for myself. ♥️
Female (24) Asheville, North Carolina

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hii im a femme switch looking for new partners to play with and for more fun experiences. heavily into cnc + exhibitionism + petplay. catch my attention, keep it, and you won’t regret it.
Female (21) Asheville, North Carolina
after a failed marriage, I no longer need to be vanilla and I can let my kink flag fly! 49 year old bi female with a fat ass, a deep throat and an insatiable desire to edge myself all day.
Female (49) Asheville, North Carolina
Poly & Partnered. AuDHD and bendy. Looking for friendly and safe connections that will help me embrace my kinky side. 😈😘 Consent and being DDF are both important to me.
Female (32) Asheville, North Carolina
A sub somewhat new to kink but well educated. Interested in rope play, Impact play, Sensory play, Orgasm control, being overstimulated, Shibari, and throat fucking, A true 24/7 D/s dynamic The use of toys, restraints and other things similar. Harder Kinks include CNC Sleep play Total Power Exchange Free Use
Female (22) Asheville, North Carolina
easy going girl looking for some fun.
Female (36) Asheville, North Carolina
I'm a submissive that likes to hear what a good girl I am. I like bdsm along with nurturing acts also. looking for a Dom that will let me surrender to him, emotionally, physically and spiritually. but He will have to be able to complete and nurture me and the dom relationship. protect me and make me feel safe so I can surrender .
Female (40) Asheville, North Carolina
Hi! I’m Zoe and I’ve been involved in the Asheville BDSM community for 5 years now. I am all submissive, all bottom, but I consider myself an all-rounder sub. I occupy a lot of different types of submissive rolls! I can’t commit to one flavor of submission, but my first love is my roll as a doll for dollification. My range is extensive and my kink list is obnoxiously long. I would say the very biggest part of the play I’m most into, however, is the aspect of power exchange in whatever form it may take. My vanilla interests are similarly varied and all over the place. I’m a woman in STEM and also heavily practice spirituality. Been reading tarot for 13 years and studying medicine since I could read. I love arts and crafts, I love music, I love studying for fun and learning new things. I’m also into video games and my little shows. Former anime nerd and cosplayer with the battle scars (Naruto tattoo) to prove it. I love all things pink and sparkly and looove some bubblegum pop, but my first love will always be emo/scene and I’ve been back into expressing that. Love goth and punk as well! Truly plus size diva. I am fat. Just so we’re clear on that. I have a very curvy body shape, but I am in fact a big girl.
Female (25) Asheville, North Carolina
Me: lg who took far too long in life to find her Daddy Dom. Still exploring my little side when I’m not doing all that pesky adulting. I like hikes, trees, bubbles, looking at flowers with a tiny microscope, waterfalls and 🍄daze :) I’ve been on fetlife for awhile but just now checking out this app so my profile is still a wee bebe, for my real pics I’ll happily share my get profile - but… My amazing Daddy has a big ol birthday coming up and I’m exploring ways to make it extra special with another little friend if vibes are right. 😈 maybe there is another little friend around who also loves bubbles and old Disney movies and oh dozens of orgasms. I have a very, very talented Daddy 🥰
Female (47) Asheville, North Carolina
I’m searching for a genuine partner in crime — a relationship and friendship. I’m not interested in hook ups and casual fun. Favorite color is Orange 🍊, love horror & action movies. Favorite food: chicken wings, pasta and crab cakes! Love a hidden waterfalls. Aries ♈️ Lives in Asheville,NC
Female (30) Asheville, North Carolina
I’m 24 I like hobbies that take patience m, such as knitting, baking, ***ting, and reading I honestly got on here to see what the fuss was about. Help me understand myself better and why I want for myself. ♥️
Female (24) Asheville, North Carolina
Married, polyamorous and partnered. Been into kink since I was a *** but been primarily in vanilla relationships (and frustrated), looking to explore my sub and brat sides more. Bi but primarily seeking masc partners at the moment, though that may change. Strongly sapiosexual, so talk nerdy to me. Mostly interested in chatting/online, willing to meet for the right connections.
Female (38) Asheville, North Carolina
looking for someone to take me out for a short time and take care of me in a certain way. I am very sensual and love to make someone feel good. Maybe we can make a trade for services.
Female (46) Asheville, North Carolina
Savannah Marie-Newly 27 Female Jackob- 33 Male Poly/Partnered Couple looking to meet friends & anonymous hookups -Heya! Sav here, trying to encourage my lovely partner to open up and explore his sexuality! looking for FemBoy who can be fun yet respectful of boundaries! not looking for Anything serious; just a Toy to bring home to Daddy 😘🤭
Female (27) Asheville, North Carolina
at least ask me what my favorite color is first. If we’re being honest, I’m new to this “world” and the way that things work. This sort of lifestyle has always fascinated me.
Female (27) Asheville, North Carolina
hello, my name is Raven, and I live in Asheville, NC! I love to partake in CNC, mask play, shibari, and more! I'm submissive by nature, and love to get lost in pleasure and ***. I smoke (420!), and drink, so let's meet somewhere first and see if the chemistry is there!
Female (33) Asheville, North Carolina
heyyy :) i’ve been apart of the kink community for a few years now! i’d consider myself a battle brat, im good at causing a scene before a scene😂 runner and chaser? yes!! that last nerve being poked? YES!!! but im also so sweet with so much affection to give😩💗 im looking for a long term D/s, specifically a daddy dom/ sadist with daddy tendencies of the sorts lol. i do enjoy older men so if you’re 45 or older, what are you waiting for?🥲 i do enjoy a good rigger, someone who knows the ropes and educated on proper performance. i’m a bit of a masochist- flogs, paddles, anything that hurts is essential during play- being a canvas is a delight🥰 i’m also very selective of who i share my body with, consider me a “selective slut” haha- take that as you will but it’s true😊😂 im hell bent on depth involved no matter the connection, i can’t connect without it. presence and consistency matter most, people reveal themselves on their own within time and ill know where to stand. i don’t chase, i don’t beg, and i wont fall for the crumbs. i don’t tolerate disrespect, respect my boundaries and that we’re equal no matter the role. if you want access, it’ll have to be earned. im open to any kind of connection, new experiences are a must no matter where it goes💗 last STD/STI panel done 3/20/26, i’m clean :) paperwork can be provided if curious. —————— now onto the good stuff.. i moved to WNC when i was 5 and i grew up here for the last 20 years but i’ve bounced around the WNC map a few times lol. i just moved to asheville in march of 2025. i’m a homebody in the winter and enjoy my solitude, but when it starts warming up it’s hard to get me back in the house😂 i blossom with the flowers when it’s time🥲 i’m a true crime junkie, i love astrology and study the stars✨, best friends with a man named billiard🎱, and i love what i do for work, body modification 💉 swimming and tubing is essential in the summer, hiking is okay but i require a waterfall at the end🤣 i enjoy traveling when i have the time. i love the beach very much, even as a mountain girl haha! i’m categorized as “yallternative”, take that as you wish lmfao!!
Female (24) Asheville, North Carolina
I'm not good at making the first move, if you want to chat feel free to message me. I've always had a thing for being tied down and want to learn about shibari, I think that's what its called. I'm also interested in aggressive cunnilingus, ***d orgasms, sensation play, sensory deprivation, and toys. I don't have experience with these but I'm definitely interested.
Female (43) Asheville, North Carolina
Hey! Im Em :) Im polygamous, and currently have 1 other partner, if that's not your thing, I understand! Open to fwb/hookups etc but also looking for a partner(s) for just me currently, but open to also being around/friends/involved with my current partner. Also looking for friends as we are new to town :) also highly kink-friendly and 420 friendly A bit of a goofball, will try and make you laugh pretty hard. Love all things silly, have vine references on repeat, and we probably will end up with thousands of inside jokes. I'm an art lover, I love drawing, doing arts + crafts etc. I do tattoos for a living! I love all ***s but if we get along I'll introduce you to my 5 cats and 2 dogs :) Lets go thrifting! I love going to the nearest thrift/antique store and digging through old things 🤣 My aesthetic is definitely cottagecore mixed with old timey antiques! I love all things nature! Going to the waterfalls in Brevard is one of my favorite places to be. Also into hiking, sight-seeing, bird watching etc! I have a recent addiction to karaoke (although I do get stage fright) but I do enjoy going at least. I eat all types of food but have a current addiction to asian and indian cuisine! Tell me your favorite places!! Always down to try something new. Even though I enjoy going out, I am somewhat of a homebody. I love binge watching a new tv series and cuddling on the couch, especially after a long day of socializing lol
Female (22) Asheville, North Carolina
I am looking for a strong compassionate person, who is willing to put up with some bratty behavior and put me in my place. This person has to be empathetic, patient, kind, witty, and smart. Ideally we should be able to talk about many things, not just concerning sex. I enjoy being outside, and more athletic activities, so you have to be somewhat active/enjoy being outside. My goal is not just to find a long term partner but also build a community, and find friends to learn from. Most times I’m open to advice or knowledge on different topics, so feel free to share. I am newer to this lifestyle, so I am still learning, but that doesn’t mean I will accept disrespect/weird behavior.
Female (18) Asheville, North Carolina
hi, im elle. 35, solo poly, just having some fun. find me on socials under ellevespertine (IG, TT, OF, X, *** & ***)
Female (35) Asheville, North Carolina
I’m super playful, intelligent and very energetic…. I’ve been told I’m a bit of a brat but not sure that I agree 😆 super left politically and need values, intelligence and humor to align before anything else. I’m giving and kind, patient and warm-natured.
Female (42) Asheville, North Carolina
I'm looking for a face to ride a few times a week or whenever I want 💛 Wont be showing my face on here, but happy to share if we connect/I'm interested. I already have a lover that blows my mind, but he's an hour away and I only see him once a week. Looking for someone who gets off on getting me off in the in between. I dont have a lot of time so needs to be easily accessible/matching availability, nearby and just easeful in general. I'm kind and generous, big time praise kink. Has to be the right connection, has to be ultra respectful, friendship connection with appreciation for mutual satisfaction/kink exploration would be the ideal... been looking for a daddy dynamic for a long time. Love a beard in between my legs. Dont hassle me if I dont respond. Super picky.
Female (46) Asheville, North Carolina
Hello I’m Alyssa and I’m new to the world of kink! I would love a soft domme to show me the ropes (get it?) while being patient that I’m not to sure what I like.
Female (18) Asheville, North Carolina
Hi yall! My partner and I are in an open relationship and are open to including people in the bedroom as well as dating individually, or together! Happy to share more about us too, but as far as I go: In my free time I: -like to lay by the pool and read/sunbathe -hike to waterfalls or lookouts -cook meals and gather my friends for dinner parties, craft nights, movie nights, dnd, game night you name it -explore new restaurants and try new foods Kink wise: I am pretty much a 50/50 switch. I love whatever dynamic feels right and have come to learn I am satisfied and happy in both roles or switching back and forth. Regardless I prefer soft domination. I enjoy most kinks and over all just enjoy doing things that excite me and my partner and push our boundaries. My limits are ***, *** and vomit! Happy hunting 😛
Female (28) Asheville, North Carolina

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